As a therapist, I’ve been able to zero in on four reliable signs that it may be time to pull the plug, or at least pay close attention.

“He’s amazing!” one of my patients gushed. “Perfect for me. His dating profile says he’s ready for a family — everything I want.”

I listened carefully, but with a certain sinking feeling. I’d heard all of this before. My patient has been on and off dating apps several times, riding the roller coaster of hope and disappointment.

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