Miley Cyrus has decided to think twice before taking any relationship advice from her mother, Tish Cyrus-Purcell.

Speaking to The Cut this week as part of a feature on the women in her famous family, Miley Cyrus recalled having to learn the hard way after Cyrus-Purcell passed along a questionable dating tip to her daughter.

“Mom’s always wanted me to stay with the wrong guy ’cause they’re hot,” said the three-time Grammy winner, who was previously married to actor Liam Hemsworth, and also dated singer Cody Simpson and actor Patrick Schwarzenegger.

Cyrus-Purcell, however, was quick to refute Miley Cyrus’ less-than-positive take. “Well, that was great advice because after so many years, you’re kind of over it and you’re like... in a relationship,” she told the outlet. “At least you get to look at somebody that’s frigging hot!”

After noting that her current boyfriend, musician Maxx Morando, “treats me really well and respects me,” Miley Cyrus quipped: “I had to find someone who treats me with respect and then Mom never really put that on the top three of her must-haves. Mom was like, ‘They need to be tall.’”