Going down on her, performing cunnilingus, eating her out, giving oral sex ― whatever you call it, this sex act has the potential to be intensely pleasurable for your partner, as long as you’re equipped with the right information.
We asked sex educators and sex therapists to share their best advice on how to make it a very satisfying experience for all involved.
Note: Just remember these are general tips. As with any sexual experience, it’s best to communicate with your partner about what he or she likes and doesn’t like. The advice below applies to anyone with a vulva, regardless of gender.
Be patient.
Patience goes a long way when you’re trying to get a woman off, particularly when it comes to oral sex. Focus on a slow buildup (maybe start with a body massage or a make-out session), then pay special attention to the clitoris, which, for many women, must be stimulated in order for them to have an orgasm.
