I know what it’s like to have inconsiderate houseguests — the kind where you can’t wait for them to leave. I don’t ever want to be that person when I’m in another country.
I’ve been traveling almost as long as I’ve been alive. I’ve made it to all seven continents, 70 countries, and 47 U.S. states. Along the way, I’ve learned how much what we say and how we say it matters, especially when navigating different cultures.
For example, words like “conquer,” “explore,” and “discover” have colonial undertones that may not be welcome in countries still recovering from the impacts of colonization. Calling a place “unspoiled” can erase its indigenous history.
The last thing I want when I’m abroad is to be labeled an obnoxious American. As a professional traveler, I’ve learned through experience the best way to avoid that is by not saying things that can come off as rude, offensive, or ignorant.
Here are 7 phrases I’d never say that Americans traveling abroad often use:
