Not every problem is fixable. You can’t change a loved one’s diagnosis or control the economy. But you can choose how you respond to life’s challenges.

As a therapist who’s studied mental strength for over 20 years, I’ve seen how people’s problem-solving abilities shape their outcomes. Those who are convinced they’re trapped stay helpless and hopeless. But those who believe there’s a way forward, no matter how small, make progress.

You’re never powerless in the face of problems. As I shared on a recent episode of my “Mentally Stronger” podcast, the way forward isn’t always about getting more information or advice. It’s about asking yourself the right questions.

Here are five powerful questions mentally strong people use to tackle any problem:

Ask yourself, “On a scale of zero to 10, with 10 being my best, where am I right now? What can I do to move up one step?”