Parents take their children’s lives amid financial strain and leave community in Tin Shui Wai reeling by the devastating act

“Three boys and their parents were found dead in an apparent murder-suicide yesterday,” reported the South China Morning Post on June 10, 1999. “The bodies of Ng Jo-yin, 12, Ng Ho-yin, 10, and Ng Chung-yin, 8, were discovered on a bed with their father, Ng Chung-kit, 42, and mother, Lam Siu-ying, 39, in a Tin Shui Wai flat.

“The windows and doors of the flat were sealed and charcoal had been burned. Lam was lying to one side of the three boys, hemming them in against the wall, and Ng was lying across his wife and sons. A letter was left in the flat on the 18th floor of Shui Sum House on Tin Shui Estate. Firemen broke in after work colleagues called at the flat because Ng, a Regional Services Department cleaner, had been absent from work since Monday.

“Mr Chow said he saw the family ‘acting normally’ on Monday night, returning home after a meal out. The mother was found in pyjamas, the eldest son in school uniform and the other two both in T-shirts and pants. An incense burner was found in the room and all the windows were closed, with cloths and jeans used to seal the gaps.